Say goodbye to your ex. Say goodbye to the pain. Light the match and set yourself free. As you watch the letter burn, imagine the fire destroying every last particle of pain and heartache. Mugerwa S, Holden JD. Br J Gen Pract.
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I Accept Show Purposes. Stacey Laura Lloyd is an author with a passion for helping others find happiness and success in their dating lives as well as in their relationships. Brides's Editorial Guidelines. Don't Wait According to Winter, timing is everything. Focus on Yourself When writing a letter to your ex, the focus should be on yourself and how you feel. Write From Your Heart While the letter may have your ex's name on it, remember that the purpose of this writing exercise is to help yourself move on after the relationship.
Article Sources. Brides takes every opportunity to use high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read our editorial guidelines to learn more about how we keep our content accurate, reliable and trustworthy. Dear Joe, I thought I could handle a long distance relationship, but I'm afraid this is just too much.
I spend so much time worrying about what you're doing, who you're doing it with, and wondering if you even think of me often. Our relationship might have had a fighting chance if a great deal of distance wasn't involved.
I have to let you go so we are both free to move on with our lives. I hope we can remain friends, and I hope you agree this is the best decision for the both of us. Fondly, Christina. Dear June, I love you so much, and that's why it's become too hard to maintain our relationship long distance.
It's just too hard not being able to hold you, spend time with you, and just see your face. We both know chatting online and talking on the phone is a poor substitute for time spent together. If we can't be together in person, then I don't think I want to be together at all.
It's too much to bear. We have to end things so we can start healing our hearts and move on with our lives. This isn't easy for me, and I can't imagine it's easy for you either, but this is the way it has to be.
Fondly, Derek. No one should have to put up with abuse. You should end the relationship immediately with a letter that puts the blame exactly where it belongs and slams the door on any chance of reconciliation. Karen, The way you treat me is wrong. If you don't realize the way you treat me is wrong, then I suggest going to therapy to figure out why you treat the people you love like you do.
If you keep going this way, you're going to find yourself alone. I'll no longer take your abuse. I did love you at one time, but those feelings are long forgotten. Don't try to contact me because we are completely over, and I will never speak to you again. Bye, Neil. Steven, I refuse to live in fear of someone who is supposed to be my protector.
I tried to make our relationship work, but your abuse is too much for anyone to handle. It's not fair to me to have to endure your wild mood swings and temper. The way you treat me is not the way you treat someone you love. I respect myself enough to say goodbye to you.
Make no mistake about it - we are finished. Have a good life, Carol. Whether you're in a relationship with a gold digger or someone who is a walking financial disaster, one of these letters will help you regain control of your heart and your bank account.
Lisa, When we first met, you duped me into believing you loved me for me, but after having been with you for a few months, it's blatantly obvious the only thing you want from me is my money. I hope you enjoyed all the money you squeezed out of me because you won't get another dime. Find someone else who is willing to drain their bank account to keep you happy.
So long, Keith. Jim, I've tried so many times to help you dig yourself out of your financial problems but unless you're willing to make big changes to how you spend your money, you'll never get out of trouble with your money. I'm not so shallow to think money is the only thing, but I am realistic enough to know I can never have a future with you where we buy a home together or even go on a vacation because you won't be able to afford either at the rate you're going.
If you're not ready to make changes to the way you handle your money, we can't be together anymore. I need to be with someone who is responsible enough to handle his business and not with someone who doesn't think it's wrong to ignore bills and spend money like it grows on trees. I hope you can get a grip on your finances someday. Goodbye, Roz. It's possible to care for someone deeply and still find yourselves heading down different paths in life.
Break up with a letter that states the truth but still shows you respect and care about your soon-to-be former partner. Dear Mark, We have to be realistic when we look at our potential future together. After we had talked about our plans for the future, it became obvious to me, and probably to you too, that our futures just don't align.
We want different things, and this is just too much to ignore. It's best we part now and learn to live without each other instead of going on together knowing it will someday end. I hate that it has to be this way, but I can't disregard my hopes and dreams for the future. I also know you would not be happy if you gave up your dreams for me either. Even though it hurts right now, this is what's best for the both of us. I'll always love you. Dear Shari, You are an amazing person. I have always been able to envision a future with you, and I know we could have been happy together if circumstances were different.
When we talk about a long-term relationship and maybe marrying someday and raising children, we inevitably begin discussing our spiritual beliefs, and it's obvious we're just too different.
I would never ask you to resign your beliefs, just as I know you would never ask me to give up mine. For this reason, we can't realistically have a future together. Write a letter telling them how much you love and respect them but cannot be together. I am happy for all that you have achieved in life. I feel proud of you. We are aware of how our career plans might take us on different paths and how it can be impossible to maintain our relationship.
Also, we both want different things in life, and no matter how hard we try, we cannot deny that our aims and goals in life are very important for us. I do not want our relationship to come in the way of our career goals. I will always cherish our wonderful memories together. All the best for your future. If you are in a relationship with someone who is concerned only about your money, get out of that relationship before your bank account starts draining.
Also, if someone just cannot stop getting into financial trouble, distance yourself from them. Initially, it was out of love that I would foot all your bills, but now you have made it a habit.
What you love is the amount of money I am willing to spend on you, which is the cause of the imbalance in our relationship. I think it is high time I safeguard my money and my heart from a mean, manipulative stealer like you. Find someone who is ready to waste their money on a lost cause like you. When have I not tried to help you out of your financial mess? No matter what problem I try to help you with, you get yourself into another the very next moment. I cannot take this anymore.
Do not think it is your financial condition that is my problem. It is not. My problem is your attitude toward money handling. If we are to have a future together, I need you to be more serious about handling money well so we can have a happy family together.
But your attitude toward money and life is not ideal for a life partner, so I have decided to break up with you. You like this person a lot but do not want to commit to them. Well, stop wasting their time, especially if they have been imagining spending the rest of their life with you.
Admit your shortcomings and take the blame for ruining a perfect relationship. I hate to disclose this to you in this manner, but writing a letter is the only way I can think of right now because I may not be able to face you while telling you this. I have been having a tough time keeping up with your expectations from me as a partner. And let me tell you that my decision has nothing to do with you, and rather, it is my inability to commit.
You are a wonderful person, and I know for sure you will find someone who will value your companionship for life. Please try to understand that I had to do it to avoid more pain for either of us. All the best in your life. This letter might come as a shock to you, but trust me, this is the best way I could think of to divulge this news to you. For the past few months, I have been trying to let you know of it but could never get it out of me.
I really like you and enjoy your company, but I do not feel prepared to take our relationship to the next level. I feel like I am making the biggest mistake of my life, but this looks like the right thing to do right now. You need to know that you are an amazing person, and having you for life would be the biggest achievement for anyone.
But I think I am not prepared to handle that kind of responsibility, and so, letting you go is the best thing to do for both of us.
If you are currently in such a situation, the following letters might help you express your feelings while breaking up with your love. After spending enough time with your family, I realized that I just do not fit in with your folks. I might be wrong or could be imagining this, but I feel that your family does not quite approve of me. I feel like they do not like me and would like to see you with someone else than me.
It would be selfish of me to ask you to pick either your family or me; hence, I have chosen to walk away from this relationship. I fear you would try to talk me out of this decision or change my mind, which is why I am writing this letter to you.
Please try to understand. I cannot stay in a relationship where the most important people in your life disapprove of me. You may or may not have noticed, but in the last few times we were with your family, I did not get along well with them. Honestly, I always felt like an outsider whenever I was with your family. I tried to blend in and be a part of your family, but either your family did not help, or I did not work hard enough to be accepted by them.
It is best we end this now and look for partners more suitable for us. I hope you understand. We hope these letters give you an idea of what you can write to someone when breaking up with them.
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